If you’ve been reading my blog for a while, you may remember the binder I made with Race Car Mats inside. Becca still loves them! I wanted to be able to take some cars on our trip and knew that the grandparents don’t have a car rug… so, we brought our mats! I used one of our Pencil Pouch
October 6- Leaf
Some days I think – how little I knew about parenting before I became one, and how much less I know in my third year of it than I did in my first.
The first year is really bliss, ya know? There’s no back-talk, no deliberate disobedience, no running away when you want them somewhere, and they don’t weigh a million pounds when you need to haul them somewhere.
Granted, the first year the first time around doesn’t FEEL like bliss, and it’s so easy to say, “It’ll be so nice when she can______.” First time parents, DO NOT miss the ease of the stage you are in! (Refer to my last paragraph.)
I love my daughter. I really, really do. With all my heart. But she is in a stage of life where some days she makes it hard to like her, despite the incredible depth of my love. I am far from patient enough to parent this little girl. And yet, she is mine to parent. Mine and Cody’s. And he’s as much at a loss sometimes as I am. Hey, at least we’re lost together, right? I’m not crazy enough to miss the fact that I have a partner in this battle, and I have a HUGE respect, admiration, and prayer list for those single moms out there who have to deal with the “terrible twos” and “three-teen” years alone. I don’t know how you (and your child) live through each day.
So in all of this, you’re probably wondering at my title, and thinking, “ok, where’s the darn photo challenge leaf for today?” Well, here’s the truth. I sat down in the rocking chair to feed my sweet little cherub who is still (THANK GOD!) in his easy year, and I thought, “one more goal for the day unaccomplished. I guess I’m gonna mess up this photo challenge, too. Will I ever finish any task I start again?” And I raised my eyes to Heaven and prayed, “God, help.” I know this answer was a small one, but my eyes fell on this cloud, lovingly, carefully painted on the nursery ceiling by my dad back in February… And I saw it. It’s a leaf. It’s been there this whole time, just waiting for that moment when God knew I’d need a little cloud, shaped like a leaf, to encourage me that we’re not alone, and God didn’t make any mistakes in giving us these two amazingly wonderful children.
Because we are the parents He wants us to be. And we won’t have all the answers all the time, but when we turn our eyes toward Him, He’ll always have an answer.
Honeybee Math
To extend our trip to the Bee Ranch, I created a little addition worksheet to start introducing Becca to the concept of addition. Except I didn’t realize that my cognitively gifted child would have the concept already, and was ready for more difficult numbers and equations. But, she did enjoy seeing the little bees, and this FREE PRINTABLE might be perfect for your child!! (I hope someone gets some good use out of it!!) I put it in a Write And Wipe Pocket
October 5- Purple
Becca’s spot at the table… Definitely a purple lover. 🙂
A Trip to the Bee Ranch
Becca has had a fascination with bees almost since the beginning. We chose to decorate her nursery with classic Pooh stuff – and a friend helped paint a gorgeous mural on the wall – with Pooh and Piglet floating with their blue balloon away from a hive of overprotective honeybees. This helped Cody’s mom to determine that she would call Becca “Honeybee.” So that’s part of it – the early indoctrination. But, she also loves the little kids show about friendship and family called “The Hive” – where the main character is a little honeybee named “Buzzbee.” If you haven’t seen it, it really is adorable, and the accents are great – they are all British. You can find it on Disney Jr, or on Netflix Kids.
But then there’s the other aspect of honeybees that Becca loves, and that’s what they produce – honey! We go to the farmer’s market at the Pearl Brewery downtown (on the Riverwalk) every Saturday morning and participate in a CSA group with a local farmer. In walking back and forth to their booth every week, we passed several times (ok, passed every Saturday for like 10 months – I’m ashamed to admit) a booth that I finally stopped at one day. And man, am I glad I did!!! The Gretchen Bee Ranch bottles and sells at the market LOCAL honey! If you’ve been to a grocery store in San Antonio, you know that the closest “Local” you can find is sourced North of Austin… which isn’t local at all since it’s over three hours away and I guarantee you those bees aren’t flying anywhere down here to gather their pollen! So, if you’re looking for truly local honey to help with allergies, the Gretchen Bee Ranch is the place. I love that they even have a type of honey sourced in the county where we live – since we live about an hour West of where the ranch is. It’s awesome too – that every Wednesday they open up their shop for anyone! No age restrictions!
So I decided it was time to take my little honeybee out to the ranch to meet Mr. Mark (the bee keeper) and to learn some more about honeybees! You’d have thought I gave her a million bucks. She has talked about those bees and all the honey she got to taste so much! She’s also super excited that we’re going back as a family to take Daddy when they have their open house in November! Here are a few pictures of our experience. I wish I had taken more!
We got to look at some “sleepy” bees on their tray, and then in the display case, Mr. Mark pointed out the queen bee, and Becca enjoyed following her around with her finger, and went back a few times to find her again.
I think she could have stood there and watched those bees all day long!
She and George followed Mr. Mark over to see the bee hives (from a distance).
She enjoyed looking at the beeswax products, and tasting several kinds of honey! If you live anywhere near Seguin, it’s worth a trip!
On the way home, she asked me a few questions about the bees, which we typed up together and sent in an email over Facebook, and Mr. Mark’s wife kindly answered them for us.
Here’s what we asked about the bees:
Dear Mr. Mark,
Thank you for showing us the bees and the honey today! I have a couple of questions for you.
How old are the bees? I’m two.
Does the queen have a name? My name is Becca.
How many bees live in a box? We have four people in our house. And two dogs and two fish and our kitty lives outside.
What is a bee’s favorite weather? I like sunny days.
Thank you!
Her Reply/What we learned:
Hello Christy and Becca,
Thanks for visiting the Bee Ranch this morning. Mark is working out in the bee yards so I will help by answering your questions.
The bees all vary in age and depending on the time of year, their life span may be as short as three weeks in summer and three months when it’s winter.
The queen bees do not have names. With over 150 queens, we call them all Queenie.
During summer and at the height of honey production and food availability, a hive can grow to 100,000 bees! During cold times when there is not much to eat on, the queen knows to reduce her colony down to as low as perhaps 20,000.
Bees adapt fairly well to weather but they do love the warm sun so that they can fly out to forage for food! You are just like a honeybee.
Take care and enjoy every day.
Butterbees and Bumbleflies 
